Some Best Places to Meet Women

Six of the Best Places To Meet Women

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Perhaps you like bars, and if so, that's the 'traditional' place to meet women.

However, although I like *some* of the women that go to bars, I like a *lot* of the women who don't. Plus, night clubs and bars are noisy. I like to go hear music in clubs, but who can listen to music when you're busy looking for women?

Plus, there are lots of low-cost alternatives, and these are places where the women can (a) feel less 'under attack' than in a club, (b) be sober, which gives you a better chance of evaluating them, and (c) hear what you are saying, you silver-tongued devil, you.

I've met women in coffee-houses, on busses, in supermarkets, in 'encounter groups' (hey! it was a long time ago), in department stores, in English class, at a lecture about spiders at the museum, at a church funeral, at a wicca gathering way up in the hills, on trains, in a hot tub, in the hallway of a local college, and in the student union building, and I met the woman who became my wife in a harmonica class. In many of these cases, you might not much expect anything to happen, and in fact that's a remarkably relaxing point of view, and when you're relaxed, you're effective.

Remember the 'havingness' principle: It's easiest to get a job when you have a job. It's easiest to get a nice apartment when you have a nice apartment. And it's easiest to get a girlfriend when you got a girlfriend.

Now you might not have a girlfriend, but in that case, one thing that makes it easier to get one -- for reasons which are explained in detail in my book "How to Get a Girlfriend ... Guaranteed!" Part of why it may help when you're 'not looking' is because you're not up-tight, and you're not busy *needing*, and *feeling frustrated*, and *picturing all the wrong stuff*, and *thinking all the wrong thoughts* ... when you're outside of all of that, because you're 'not looking' right then, that's when women are most likely to show up. Go figure.

Women are romantic. they want something to be unusual. They want to be cherished, the center of the universe, and though that might not be logical, well, maybe they aren't! So if you're spending time outside the usual bars and clubs, it's going to make a better story, and she's going to feel, as likely as not, that it was Kismet, meant to be, and all those things they love to think.

There are hundreds of possibilities, but here are some recommendations --

1. At work. This has the initial virtue of being a place where you're likely to be spending some time already! Now, you *don't* want to get involved in your own workplace, exactly, because that can open a terrible, terrible bag of worms. (For example, suppose things go less than swimmingly, and you break up. How wonderful will it be to exchange glances across the conference table the next day?)

But maybe there's somebody in some distant department. Perhaps somebody in another company in the same building. Perhaps a customer of your company (but not one you work for directly, right?).

2. Church. This includes Baptist and Catholic gatherings, but also Jewish, Buddhist, Hindu, Islamic, and Bah'ai gatherings, as well as Scientology, Eckankar, Druid, Wiccan, and 'New Age' religions, plus 'spiritual' gatherings related to Huna, Silva Mind Control, The Secret, Magick, Meditations, and Nam Myoho Ringe Kyo to you! The list goes on and on. And on and on and on.

Obviously, don't go anyplace you wouldn't feel comfortable. But with a little brass, you can feel comfortable *lots* of places. (And after a few weeks at the tamer locations, you'll be ready for the further-out types.)

Don't underestimate Church. Plus, maybe it will be good for you, you devil!

3. Referrals from friends, co-workers, buddies, non-romantic women friends, Aunt Janie, work contacts. If you're in sales, you already know that referrals are a gold mine, because you can get introduced. (This means that the woman can relax a bit, just knowing that you're probably not *too* much of a wierdo, because Aunt Janie said you were OK.) 

Now this naturally includes any kind of 'gathering,' which includes parties, family get-togethers, company picnics, ball games where little Joey is playing. You just nudge yourself an invite to any of these and meet whoever is there; but you can also ask your friends (and Aunt Janie) for suggestions. Sometimes they'll even fix you up. (In your copy of 'Get a Girlfriend ... Guaranteed', you'll learn the steroids version of this technique. Worked diligently, you can meet up to 40 women in just a few weeks. Worked lazily, you can meet them over a longer time.)

4. Classes. If you're a student, especially a student in a large high-school, or even better, in college, then you're halfway home. But if you're not already a student, it's easy to become one. Find some topic that interests you -- if you're going to take a class, it might as well be something you want to know about! -- and sign up. You do want to think about the appropriateness of the age of the women who might be in the class. For example, a college class mostly attended by young co-eds, if you're in your 40's, might not net you as much fun as a night class attended by 40-something women.

One of my favorites, assuming that you're in fairly good shape yourself, is a yoga, gym, or aerobics class. I suppose I'm just awful, but it's awfully nice to be able to check out the merchandise!

And the specific benefit of classes is that, by definition, you're in the 'same group,' like being on the same team. And besides having 'things in common' you've got a whole bunch of things you can talk about. It's ... easy.

Want a one-shot for tonight instead of signing up for a five-week class? Open the paper and see what events are being held at the Libraries, the Colleges, the Jewish Community Center, the YMCA (and YWCA), the Churches, plus special-interest groups like Parents Without Partners, and on and on and on. Nothing wrong with a bingo game, if you're a similar age as the bingo players. Nothing wrong with polka lessons, even if you *hate* the polka ... if you like the polkettes.

5. Travelling. Travelling anywhere, but the best deal is when there are several of you (like a tour), or a whole bunch of you (out-of-town football game for little Joey). A tour could be a great way to spend a vacation, travelling in a foreign country, travelling all together, in a bus or railroad car where you can (must) talk and talk and talk, sharing experiences, sharing goals -- Must See the Eiffel Tower! -- sharing meals and fun times away from the usual, when everybody feels like letting her hair down.

And of course, tours can be much more casual than that. I used to live in San Francisco. Maybe the city tours are just for tourists? Maybe so, but those girls are only in town for a few days, and they don't know anyone in town, and ... maybe you could provide them with a little private tour of the 'real' city, that only a native such as yourself could provide?

6. Wherever you need to go. If you don't need to go someplace, then go someplace anyway. Open the newspaper as described in #4 above, and go someplace tonight! Sometimes, maybe lots of times, you might strike out. But if the alternative is picking your nose at home, what's to lose?

If you're waiting for a bus or train or subway, strike up a conversation with other folks there, including the pretty little thing sitting all alone on the bench. Wherever you go, strike up conversations. In the department store? Strike up a conversation. In the gas station? Strike up a conversation. In trouble? Strike up a conversation. (The more offbeat, the better the story later. The more banal, the more desparate they'll be to chat!)

(If you're not yet smooth and comfortable striking up conversations, then either learn by stubborn repetition, or get your copy of 'Get a Girlfriend ... Guaranteed' by immediate download right now, and start using both the fun 'get over shyness fast' exercise and start using the guidelines for successful Striking Up of Conversations. Won't be long ... you be talking to them!)

One last bit of advice. The more you relax, the better you'll do. The better you do, the better you'll do somewhere else. The more you practice, the better you get.

Get *on* with you!